Consensual Power Exchange

October 11, 2017
Slave worshipping London Dominatrix Sir Claire Black's feet

Review: First time visiting a dominatrix

Last week I had the pleasure of giving a young man his very first taste of BDSM. We had such fun together, he immediately relaxed into […]
November 15, 2016

Variety is the spice of life: What do you want?

The thing I love most about being a pro-domme is the variety; every day, every session is different. Media is awash with stereotypes of the Dominatrix […]
June 28, 2016
the underside of Sir Claire Black's boot

What’s it like to be trampled and kicked?

A few weeks ago I posted a write up of a delightful session of trampling and kicking Did you see it? When checking in that the […]
February 29, 2016

What happens during an overnight session?

What happens when a pro-domme and a sub are left alone together for over 12 hours? Here’s a taste…
October 19, 2015
Claire Black boots on beach

Kinky Holiday – Final Words

October 18, 2015

Kinky Holiday Review: The submissive view

How the holiday looked from the submissive’s perspective. What is it like to travel with a Dominatrix?
October 17, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Last Day

The final day of the BDSM retreat. Reflections on how I connect with people in BDSM play, and disconnect to stay sane. Plus the usual shenanigans […]
October 16, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Third Day

Day 3 of our D/s retreat, more fun and games, reflecting on the nature of a Dominatrix/client relationship and complex power dynamics involved. Plus a super […]
October 15, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Second Day

Day two of a BDSM holiday exploring the limits of dominance and submission, more caning, domestic bliss, bondage, CBT, a frilly maid and a country gentleman.
October 14, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The First Day

The first day of a trip to Scotland to explore the limits of a D/s relationship. Submissive contracts, dressing up, negotiations, chastity, canes, skinny-dipping. Including pictures.
August 30, 2015

Conversational Dominance and Power: A bit of a rant

Musings on power balance in conversation. What is happening when someone persistently talks over another and how is this relevant in a BDSM setting.