Should Dominatrices remove their body hair?

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Sexy hairy legs and pretty feet of London Dominatrix Claire Black

They should do whatever the fuck they want!

 

Now we’ve got that out of the way, here are some more detailed thoughts. Body hair is a controversial subject for women. Society presents smooth, hairless forms as the ideal beauty standard. Models, actresses, celebrities, porn stars – all the figureheads of desire are bald save their perfectly groomed hair and carefully plucked eyebrows (and occasional tuft of manicured pubic hair). In recent years there has been a move towards the normalising of female body hair, particularly underarm and pubic hair (still often groomed). The images we are seeing more and more frequently of body hair on women are met with mixed responses, and not just from men.

So much of what is portrayed as beautiful is curated to satisfy the male gaze, what do men want to see women look like? As a dominatrix I occupy an interesting position here: I present myself as an object of desire for men, but also I present as a powerful woman who does as she pleases. What happens when the expected convention is to shave body hair, but my desires are to grow it? I damn well let it grow!

 

Pubic Hair

Let’s take a look at different areas of body hair. First of all I stopped shaving my pubic hair, I trim, but no razor goes near my bikini line. I started doing this because shaving was a complicated procedure that (I realised) I was only doing to be perceived as sexy. It involved careful plotting, hours spent in the bathroom steaming, exfoliating, shaving and rinsing for one night of silky smooth glory. Then days or even weeks of itching, rash, stubble, ingrown hairs… it was awful. Trust me I tried everything but my body just didn’t like it. I would go as far to avoid dates on particularly rashy days – how silly to let the state of my body hair rule my sex life! So I stopped shaving and just trimmed and what a relief! No itching, no bloody rash, no careful scheduling of dates to always look perfect. I felt free to have sex whenever I wanted without fussing and fretting about whether grinding my cunt against anything would end in blood. Growing in pubic hair is easy though, only a select few ever saw this intimate body hair choice; and if a person baulked at a little hair between my legs they certainly had no place there.

 

Sexy armpit hair and leather vest on London Mistress Claire Black

Armpits

Underarms were the next challenge. I wear vest tops often, and in sessions sometimes only bras. My armpits are significantly more visible. Helpfully there has been a movement towards normalising women with underarm hair for the past few years so I didn’t feel so alone, I could look at pictures of extremely sexy women with dark fuzzies under their arms and know that fact didn’t make me any less desirable. After curiously growing them to their full length I decided these should also be trimmed, not for any aesthetic reason, just because I disliked the feel of a clump of hair under my arms.

 

This quite quickly became normal, now I don’t even consider it when choosing what to wear, whether to raise my hands. On the odd occasion that a client comments on my underarm hair it comes as a surprise, I forget there would even be anything to comment on. And honestly, it’s soft, silky and holds my natural musky smell longer – what’s not to like about that.

 

 

 

Hairy legs

But next to the real taboo, hairy legs. Women with leg hair is not something I’ve seen positively portrayed in the media, have you? Have you seen a woman set up as a symbol of sexuality and desire who also has leg hair? It seems mysteriously lacking. So I started growing my leg hair. At first I was just curious, I’d somehow reached 30 and had no idea what my legs would look like if left to their own devices. Soon I noticed how much more sensation I had, I could feel the little hairs moving in the currents of my bath, in the breeze, and if someone runs their fingers gently up my shins…mmmm. I very quickly grew to love them, and how they symbolise that I am doing what I want with my body, not what I think I should do in order to be desirable. But I am conscious of what others think.

Lonfon Mistress Claire Black's sexy hair legs in heels trampling on a slaveNot in day to day life of course, I couldn’t care less what any stranger on the street thinks. But I wonder how it looks in my marketing, the images I use to attract clients, to present myself as a desirable body for you to interact with. What do you guys think when you see my hairy legs beside the smooth calves of other dommes? And how would you feel if you came along to a session and upon instructions to worship my pretty feet, found soft little hairs just above them?

I hope you would realise these are the body grooming choices of a woman who is doing exactly what she wants, that these hairy legs belong someone who refuses to pander to your gaze, who refuses to go out of her way to shape herself into your fantasy. I hope you would see how strong a woman has to be to make these choices whilst succeeding in a competitive and materialistic industry. And I would sincerely hope that you were smart enough to get over the cultural conditioning you’ve been immersed in and appreciate the beauty of different grooming choices.

So if you get a chance to lick my hairy legs, you can be grateful that you are allowed to touch the leg of a woman who will take shit from no-one, a dominatrix who will do exactly as she pleases and to hell with what anyone else says is desirable.

 

 

If you would like to book a session to worship my soft hairy legs or armpits check out my contact requirements then drop me an email.

 

 

Sexy hairy legs and pretty feet of London Dominatrix Claire Black

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